DEAR DEIDRE: I SPEND my spare time looking at shoes online. They’re my fetish.
I have a new girlfriend and don’t know how to tell her what I’m into.
I’m a guy of 26, she is 24 – and lovely.
I’ve always loved fashion and particularly footwear.
It started when I was a young teenager and I began to follow fashion influencers.
Now I’ve progressed to men’s and women’s shoes.
The smell of them box-fresh is such a turn-on.
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Sometimes I don’t even need to wear them to get a kick.
Should I tell my girlfriend or will it put her off me?
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DEIDRE SAYS: A mild degree of fetishism is very common and as you buy your own shoes, you’re not causing any harm.
But you would be wise to wait until you really know somebody before divulging this private side of your life.
You may find that with a new relationship, you no longer need shoes for sexual relief.
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