My girlfriend completely lost her sex drive since giving birth six months ago – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE our daughter was born six months ago, my girlfriend has lost her sex drive.

I’m 28 and she is 26. We’ve been together for three years and have a good relationship.

We used to have sex all the time but now it’s almost never. I was planning on asking her to marry me but the lack of sex is making me worried.

If I raise the subject she says she is always tired with looking after our baby all day. I know she gets up to do the night feeds but will her sex drive ever come back?

DEIDRE SAYS: Childbirth means hormonal changes, a massive lifestyle shift and sheer exhaustion.

Her sex drive can certainly return but you can help to speed it up.

Share chores and child-care when possible – you’ll find it’s far more tiring than any job. Show her lots of affection so she feels appreciated.

My e-leaflet on Sex Problems After A Baby explains self-help.

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