My husband refuses intercourse saying we are too fat and his manhood too small

DEAR DEIDRE:  MY husband and I have only had sex three times since we married three years ago.

We’ve been together for ten years and our sex life was great before we got hitched. 


Get in touch with Deidre today

My team and I are working safely from home but we are here to help you as always.

Send an email to [email protected].

Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.

Follow me on Twitter @deardeidre.

Now he says we are too fat and that his manhood is small, and he no longer likes me cuddling him in public.

I don’t understand what’s changed. We’re in our mid-30s. We may be a bit overweight but it wasn’t a problem before. We have started to pleasure each other without intercourse and he says it’s the best thing ever, but I just want my man to make love to me again properly.

DEIDRE SAYS: It may be that before the wedding he saw you both as sexy, cuddly lovers. Now he sees you as a staid, overweight, married couple. What was his parents’ marriage like?

You need to confront this and may need some help. 

Tavistock Relationships (tavistockrelationships.org) offers online counselling.

NEXT IN TODAY'S DEAR DEIDRE I tried to say sorry to my first girlfriend through Facebook but she blocked me

READ DEIDRE'S CLASSIC PHOTO CASEBOOK Heidi & her married ex go in the garden during the millennium party

GOT a story? RING The Sun on 0207 782 4104 or WHATSAPP on 07423720250 or EMAIL [email protected]

Source: Read Full Article