DEAR DEIDRE: RATHER than have sex with me, my husband prefers to sleep on the sofa.
It all went wrong after our daughter was born two years ago.
We have been married for four years.
We have sex once every four months – and that’s if he’s in the mood.
I have a high sex drive, so I am often in the mood, but that makes no difference.
He has taken to sleeping on the sofa – I’m convinced it’s so he can avoid my advances.
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If I question him on the lack of sex or why he sleeps on the sofa, he refuses to answer or changes the subject.
He is 40 and I’m 37.
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DEIDRE SAYS: This relates to the birth of your daughter.
Some partners can feel pushed out, or sometimes they only see the mother of their child in their partner, rather than their lover.
He may be traumatised if he saw you in pain during childbirth or even be worried about getting you pregnant again.
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