DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend is threatening to show my boss some humiliating videos.
Three years ago, before I met her, I recorded a couple of videos of me pleasuring myself.
In lockdown I uploaded these film clips to a gay website.
I am 26 and my girlfriend is 24. When she saw the videos she was upset.
Before I could take them down, she copied them and sent them to her brother and her cousin.
I have apologised to her and admitted it was a really stupid thing to do.
I think I was bored after being furloughed and spending the days on my own.
We were supposed to be working things through but now, whenever we have an argument she threatens to tell my boss. I’m terrified.
DEIDRE SAYS: If she shared your videos without your consent she could be prosecuted.
While you put the videos on this website of your own free will, what your girlfriend is doing is illegal.
It is an offence to share, or threaten to share, anyone’s intimate images without their consent.
Explain this to her urgently. Surely if she loves you, she wouldn’t want to do something that would hurt you so much.
If she does not understand the distress she is causing, I strongly advise leaving this relationship.
You can get support from the Revenge Porn Helpline (revengeporn helpline.org.uk).
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