I can't get an erection with new lover four years after wife's shock death | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: EVERYTHING is going well with my new partner and we have a lot in common but I’m struggling to perform in the bedroom.

She says she is in it for the long haul and won’t desert me but I’d really like to get this sorted.

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I’m 56 and she is 53. We’ve been together for six months and she is the best thing to happen to me in more than  four years.

My wife of 25 years died very suddenly and it took me a while to even consider dating again.

The problem is every time we go to bed I struggle to get an erection.

I’ve tried lots of different pills and nothing makes a difference.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m sorry to hear that your wife died and am sending you my  bereavement support pack which may help you understand what you’re feeling right now.

It’s crucial you talk to your doctor,   to rule out any underlying medical cause.

If you’re still getting early morning erections it’s likely this response is purely psychological and  projecting as guilt for  somehow being unfaithful to your late wife.

This issue is then often worsened by anxiety.

I’m also sending you my support pack, Erection Problems, which has practical  help on how to  get back on the right track.

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